Domestication and attachment work hand in hand to keep you separated from your Authentic Self,
lost in the fog and smoke, trapped in the drama of Society.
This cycle (domestication, self-domestication, attachment) can continue for generations
until you transform into Master of Self and break the chain.
Learning to assimilate the Five Agreements into your Life will help you begin to identify your own domestications and attachments. Once you have recognized them, you can then decide if you are ready to let them go or not.
The First Agreement
Be impeccable with your word
Speak with Integrity
Say only what you mean
Avoid using your words to speak against yourself or to gossip about others
Use the power of your words in the direction of truth and love
Transformational Coaching by incorporating the Five Agreements into your Life
The only true way to have an awareness of how we find ourselves at any "point" in our lives
Is to understand the process of "Human Domestication"
YOU CAN'T FIX A PROBLEM WITHOUT PROPER AWARENESS ON WHAT TO FIX AND HOW TO FIX IT. YOU NEED AWARENESS.
From the moment of our birth, we are exposed to the first examples of Human Domestication.
Our first teachers are those who raise us, our parents, extended family, how our Society views things
We move on to educational sources, our religious upbringing.
Our interaction with others teaches us their "Dream of the Planet"
Once these ideas are lodged inside us and accepted, they become beliefs.
Once we believe, we no longer need "outside" domesticators to enforce these ideas, we do it ourselves.
Because, when we are young, our need to "fit in" to be accepted and approved of is strong.
depending on how strong your attachment is,
your acceptance of yourself and others is contingent upon fulfillment of the beliefs.
As you can see, attachments can often arise from domestication.
The irony is that when this happens,
you become attached to an idea that you didn’t even agree with initially but only adopted because of domestication. The end result is that without awareness,
you will adhere to ideas that aren’t even true for you (as well as push them on others)!