Let me make it simple...

NLP is a pragmatic school of thought (called an "epistemology")

It is a multi-dimensional process that involves the development

of behavioral competency and flexibility.

In Neuro-linguistics, the person with the greatest flexibility has the best advantage.

This is also true in Mediation

It involves Strategic Thinking and an understanding of

the mental and cognitive processes behind the behavior.

And once again, you understand that the "map" you have created

May have similarities to the one your domestication has built in your mind,

But just like a GPS, it represents a one level view of a 3-dimensional space-

"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change."

Wayne Dyer, M.D.

So, what can Neurolinguistics do for you?

When we live our lives by "scripts" we create,

we oft times distort our Reality.​

Neurolinguistics is an understanding

not of the brain

but of how the mind, using the brain

expresses itself in your life and 

creates what you call your "experience"."

Thus you see, our brain creates a "map"

The main source of misunderstanding

between people

is the difference in their perspective.

But it really takes understanding,

a bit of training & a great deal of practice

to "translate" perceptions into 

different people's sense of "reality"

Now you will understand why given the gift of Empathy

and all the advanced training I have had in understanding

how and why the brain works as it does.

I can teach one to strategically think and understand what baggage they carry

from this lifetime or one of hundreds-even, thousands  of human experiences before.

 It's really pretty simple.

Every thing-every person-every experience

we encounter in the course of our lives

writes a "script"

a kind of "game plan" of how we view the world

this is what we call our "perspective"

Having spent many years,

first as a Relationship Therapist...

then as a Life and Relationship Coach,

and ultimately incorporating being 

an Advanced Family Mediator, 

incorporating Neurolinguistics into my work

was the "thread" that pulled it all together.

it became fundamentally clear

that in order to help people understand themselves

and understand the people in their lives

and the world they interacted with, 

a basic process had to take place.


 No one and I DO mean, no one,

can be harder to oneself than "us"

trouble being that we have to be so careful... 

 It's such an intricate practice, yet it is quite simple to understand

(it really is)

The mind (neuro) and language (linguistics) and how their interplay with one another

affects our bodies and behavior

In simpler words"programming" just means human domestication

which determines the "models" that we build in our minds

of our perceptions of the world we create.